Peak Erotic Experiences

In his book*, James Morin Ph.D. talks about peak turn-ons.

The great thing about peak turn-ons, like all other clear memories, is that they contain what Morin calls "'memorability factors' - characteristics that make any event stand out." If you ponder those times when you were really turned-on, certain snippets will jump-out. These memorability factors are one of the keys to getting more peak turn-ons - if you know what has turned you on in the past, you can go a long way in recreating such experiences in the future.

During his research, Morin found peak erotic experiences usually contained one or more of the following:

A first time or, the element of surprise
Halcyon locations/circumstance or partners
Time factors - quickies and drawn-out lovemaking

Once you know what turns you on, you can use this knowledge to make your 'bush exploring' even more pleasurable - by incorporating these pertinent memorability factors into your masturbation fantasies. What's great about a fantasy is if something isn't working, you can quickly modify it until you find what works. Once you have something that 'pushes the button', you can then go on to hone it - this honing can transform an exciting fantasy into something mind-blowing.

*The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfilment.