Snuggling Female Friends Wearing Just Underwear

One of the best things about snuggling with female friends is the skin-on-skin contact we benefit from cuddling whilst just wearing underwear. This special kind of physical contact is hard to come by, when you're not in a relationship. Even when in a relationship, men frequently struggle to just cuddle and not get sexually aroused and then want sex. This is why when you crave touch, snuggling with your female friends can be such a huge bonus; you can just cuddle without it potentially leading to sex.

Skin-on-skin contact feels so wonderful, and yet I would say we're fairly deprived of it in our culture. We're fairly deprived of physical touch full stop. Think about it, how many hugs do you receive a day? Sometimes we can go for days or weeks without hugging someone. Other primates regularly groom and hold each other and so naturally get their need for touch met. In addition, wearing clothes can act as a barrier between ourselves and others, even those we do hug. Yet being touched is massively important for emotional and physical well-being (babies who are not touched fail to thrive).

How comfortable would you feel cuddling your female friends whilst wearing only underwear? Maybe the thought is alien to you, you think it's wrong, or, lucky you, it's something you do on a regular basis. If it's something you've never done before, we welcome you to try it.

Happy New Year!

Make it an orgasmic one!

If Humans Had Tails...

If you've never bemoaned Homo sapiens's loss of its tail, now is the time to do so! Remember the pubococcygeus (PC) muscle we talked about in an earlier post, and that its strengthening at any opportune moment (supermarket queue/line, traffic jam, etc.), would bring a bigger smile to your orgasming face? Well, if we humans still had tails, we'd be able to wag our way to better orgasms!

No wonder dogs are always so happy!

Would You Masturbate in Front of Your Female Friends?

Would you masturbate in front of your female friends? A lot of women are happy masturbating in front of their boyfriend/partner/husband, but what about their female friends? We're not talking about so they can watch, unless that is something which you want to do, we're simply talking about two heterosexual women masturbating at the same time, in the same room.

We're not suggesting you suddenly start masturbating whilst one of your friends is round, that is, inflicting it upon an unwilling participant; we're talking about two women agreeing to masturbate in the same room.

It's something that we've recently started doing. It started off that we'd talk about masturbation, then talk about when we'd masturbated and our experience of that particular orgasm, and then we'd happen to be together when we were both feeling randy. So, we'd begin masturbating at the same time, but in different rooms, and then wait until the other person had finished. Until one day Bunny suggested doing it in the same room; we don't watch each other, that's not what this is about for us. It's simply a way of sharing more intimacy. We then snuggle afterwards. It's more intimacy that we as women can easily share; it makes masturbation even less of a taboo and we think it's important to break-down this wall of fear associated with masturbation. We think the more women become comfortable doing it in front of their female friends, the faster masturbation will be viewed as the normal act which it is, and the sooner masturbation taboos will disappear from society.

How Often Do You Masturbate?

How often do you masturbate?

I (Bunny), usually masturbate on a daily basis. Sometimes I'll masturbate more than once a day. If I go for more than a few days without masturbating then I'll have really sexy dreams which involve either having sex with someone or masturbating. I've masturbated this frequently since I can remember, certainly since I was 21 (I'm now 35).

I've recently been ill with a bad cold and so haven't masturbated for several days; the malaise that came with the cold has killed-off my desire too.

When Kitty was on the contraceptive pill, she found it incredible that Bunny masturbated so frequently. She just couldn't comprehend why anyone would want to masturbate so much - just what was the appeal? Then she came off the pill and realised what she'd been missing. She now masturbates on an almost daily basis. Before she used to masturbate only when she had her period each month (i.e. when she wasn't taking the pill).

I find that sexual desire has a cycle; some months I can go for a week or so without masturbating. I'll then have a stint of feeling exceptionally randy and can't get enough, and masturbate several times a day. Although increased sexual desire in women has been associated with the peak of hormones during ovulation (which evens out after the menopause and also when taking the contraceptive pill), I don't find that my desire is a slave to such peaks. I can be at my randiest just before my period, and my desire may or may not increase during my fertile peaks.

Masturbation has lots of health benefits; it can improve immunity, help us to relax and relieve pain. It's also a regular and consistent source of pleasure. For these reasons, we're big fans of it, and don't think anybody should stint on it. We realise though that it's an entirely personal thing; how often is down to your own preferences. We've created a poll to see the masturbation habits of other women and invite you to participate - all answers are anonymous. We'll write about the results when the poll closes in a few month's time.

Fritz Klein Sexual Orientation Quiz

Bunny scored an average of 1.43

Kitty scored an average of 2.71

Meaning

This result can also be related to the Kinsey Scale:


0 = exclusively heterosexual
1 = predominantly heterosexual, incidentally homosexual
2 = predominantly heterosexual, but more
than incidentally homosexual
3 = equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 = predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally
heterosexual
5 = predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual
6 = exclusively homosexual

Summary

The idea of this excercise is to understand exactly how dynamic a person's sexual orientation can be, as well as how fluid it can be over a person's lifespan. While a person's number of actual homo/heterosexual encounters may be easy to categorize, their actual orientation may be completely different. Simple labels like "homosexual", "heterosexual", and "bisexual" need not be the only three options available to us.

Take the quiz

Ann Summers Party

Ann Summers parties are fun, but this one was particularly so. The hostess (a friend), opened the door to her guests wearing the Ann Summers Purple Penetrator - to great hilarity! [Sorry, no photos!] (In case you don't know what a Purple Penetrator is, it's a purple strap-on-cock - with a vibrating bullet where you want it.) What ensued was a roomful of ladies, each trying on the Purple Penetrator and posing for the best effect. One even swayed from side-to-side with accompanying lightsaber sound-effects. They also gave their verdict on what it was like to own a cock - one guest finally understood why men sit with their legs open - and it made her glad to be a woman.

Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Sex and Science

'Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Sex and Science' by Mary Roach. Kitty has just ordered this book and Bunny can't wait to get stuck in.

Kitty's Party

Kitty had a party today and to celebrate, Bunny made Kitty a Window (Battenburg) cake, because it's her favourite. With the extra marzipan, she created figurines of Kitty and herself, which Kitty loved and promptly took pictures for the website and blog.











This is Kitty holding her favourite vibrator 'Promises' (otherwise known as 'The Pink One') from the Ann Summers range.













This is Bunny, coveting Kitty's 'Pink One'.